Are Women Capable Of Love?

This week the crew dissects whether or not women are truly capable of love. If you watched any romantic comedy for the last 30 years, you would think women were the ones truly after romantic, idealistic love. You would be mistaken.

According to Iron Rule of Tomassi #6:

Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.

In its simplicity this speaks volumes about about the condition of Men. It accurately expresses a pervasive nihilism that Men must either confront and accept, or be driven insane in denial for the rest of their lives when they fail to come to terms with the disillusionment.

Now, a lot of men read that and think that means women are completely incapable of love. You hear people like Coach Greg Adams say things like:

Women don’t love you. They love what you can do for them. She desires unconditional love from you, but her love will have hundreds of conditions from day one. Know and accept this, then adapt.

— Coach Greg Adams (@coachgregadams) October 7, 2020

Here's the deal, just because they don't love you in an idealistic way that you think they SHOULD love you, doesn't mean they don't love you in their own way.

Just as I mentioned Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 above, Rollo Tomassi also says this:

She’s not incapable of love in the way she defines it, she’s incapable of love as you would have it. She doesn’t lack the capacity for connection and emotional investment, she lacks the capacity for the connection you think would ideally suit you.

So just because she doesn't love you the way the Disney fairy tales suggest, doesn't mean she doesn't love you at all. The Mantastic 4 goes into real depth on this from several different perspectives! Watch the video above!